After 5 full days in Manila, I (and the group) have managed to settle in and acclimatize as much as possible for 7 people who grew up in the Western world. While the humidity still knocks us to our knees at times, we have become increasingly accepting of it and now don't even notice it until something happens to draw our attention to the clothing clinging to our bodies. For the most part, sleep has eluded us thanks to the heat and humidity. Last night, I had the best sleep I've had since arriving in the Philippines - a slumber that would be considered decent in the UK and therefore considered a gift from God in Manila.
Our primary purpose in Manila is working with a charity called Asian Students Christian Foundation which is actually based in Camberley. ASCF runs a few projects: Mango House, a children's home; Cashew Tree House, a nursery school; Papaya Academy, a primary school; and the Grapevine Project, a Saturday education program. We have been working to paint Cashew and have done a bang-up job thus far. The downstairs walls are a terracotta colour while the baseboards and doorways are lime green. Upstairs, the walls are lime green with terracotta for the baseboards and doorways. Some members of our team were delighted with the colour choices; I'm of the belief that they were chosen by someone who either: A) Has not been blessed with the gift of sight, B) Is colour blind or C) Has no taste. Quite possibly, it's a combination of all three. I must admit, it's turning out better than I expected. We have been joined by many members of the Cashew Tree family, i.e. parent volunteers. They feed us a hot meal at lunch and then give us treats in the afternoon. Friday it was caramelised bananas while today was sweet potato fries (covered in caramelised brown sugar) and coconut jam (sugar cane syrup mixed with coconut milk). The Filipinos like their food sweet, salty, and fried. Despite this, I've seen max 4 fat Filipinos in the last 5 days.
The people here have treated us like we are royalty; I rather feel like a visiting dignitary than a Canadian coming to sling some paint on the walls. However, for these people, our presence means the world to them as it means their school can receive a much-needed facelift. Words like "we are honoured" and "we are so blessed to have you" are oftentimes how we are greeted when meeting people connected with ASCF. And, you know they mean it. We are currently staying at the children's home and have had every need looked after. The Filipinos think we're slightly mad for drinking so much water but hey ho. Little touches have meant so much. For example, the night we arrived we were taken to the water to get some water. I noticed a jar of Cheez Whiz (!) on the shelf and got very excited. Friday morning, we get down to the dining room and discover that someone has put Cheez Whiz on the table for me to have with a piece of bread. It appears every morning. All we have to do is express interest in something/someone and the next thing we know, it has been made available to us. The children all try and give up their seat for us and love holding our hand/wrist/arm. Physical touch is very important to the Filipinos and they are very free with their hugs - they wear their hearts on their sleeves and have done so since the first meeting. The kids refer to me as "Ate (ah-tay) Kristen" which is a term of respect for an older female. Men are referred to as "kuya" (koo-yah); however, for some reason the kids have referred to the male members of our contingent as "uncle". It's very sweet, though, and I love it. Every night we meet with the kids for devotions and after it's all finished, the kids give us hugs before going to bed. Tonight's hug session lasted a looooong time. However, it's the best part of devotions for me.
Today, Craig, the executive director of ASCF who grew up in the UK but has lived in Manila for 27 years, took 4 of us to visit a family who live in the slums near Cashew. The other 3 in our group had gone Friday and today was our turn. Cashew is next to a mountain of garbage (it's sickening how large the hill is) and many of the kids come from families that depend on the garbage dump to eke out an income to support their families. All of the people living in the area are squatters (including Cashew) and have been threatened with eviction. Craig said he hopes he has put enough measures into place to save Cashew should anything happen.
We visited the Capuz family who have 3 beautiful girls: Jireh, Angelika, and Shakinah. They lived in what could (generously) be called a shack. To be honest, the words I want to use are NSFW so I'll just leave it at that. When we arrived, the girls were playing in a bathtub of water - it was close to 35 degrees today - and full of smiles and giggles. They ushered us into their home (it's a home more than it is a house) and we got to talk to them and ask them questions. All three girls are in school and all three girls have marks I wish I could have; Jireh's lowest mark was 84 in CLE (Christian Life Education). I fought back the tears the entire time I was there and indulged in a bit of cry once we were walking back to Cashew. I couldn't believe that anyone, let alone children, should be made to live in that type of squalor. Their roof is full of holes that lets in rain (more like acts akin to a sieve) and since the rainy season is beginning, it means they live in water. Shakinah is a little genius (all three girls are brilliant) and would like to attend the local private school but is unable to because of the exorbitant school fees: 10,000 PHP for tuition/year. This is about £300 or $450. All I could think about were the children at my school back in England and how they routinely whine about how miserable Kings is, how much they hate it, etc. Here, I'm meeting kids who want an education more than anything but can't have it because their father's only source of income comes from scrounging for goods in a garbage dump. It made me feel nauseous just thinking about it. I had to fight back the tears when all I wanted to do was weep and ask God a classic: "How can you let this happen?!" question. The pictures below are of the three girls and their home. The girls go: Jireh (on the left), Shakinah, and Angelika (on the right).
I do believe I will sign off now and head to bed. The alarm goes off at 6 AM and it's a serious struggle to get out of bed. I tend to stay in bed and shower last; a wet bathroom floor (our ensuite is a wet room) is a small price to pay for 40 extra minutes of sleep!
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Love
Kristen
